I don't subscribe whole-heartedly to the "do what you love and the money will follow" philosophy - I am too pragmatic for that. What I do believe is that you should "do what you can and plan for what you love." Little by little you will get there. JRR Tolkien wrote "Little by little one goes far." It seems so simple but it is true.
By looking at what you want to be 'when you grow up', what your vision is for your life (or at least the next little while) both personally and professionally, and looking at how little by little you can get there you will be amazed at what is possible, at what you can do!
So many people have the belief that there will be that moment of clarity; that all of a sudden they will know what they want and how they are going to get there. In my experience, that rarely occurs. As a student fresh out of university I felt so inadequate when I realized I didn't know what I wanted to do. Presumably I didn't know who I wanted to be. In reality I just needed to try many things to discover what I liked and what I didn't. I have learned that even those who seemed so focused in school or so sure of what they wanted have had to go through the trial and error of life to figure out what they are truly good at and what they really enjoy. They've changed direction and found new passions or focused the old passion on a new horizon.
I used to think that by setting a goal or creating a vision for my career I was limiting myself. I thought I would be locking myself into that path and if I did not complete it exactly as envisioned I was a failure. That was a hard thing to unlearn. Goals change but by setting that goal at least you get started on a journey. It is inevitable that you will reach a fork in the road or better yet have to create a new path for yourself. Either way you will learn and adjust along the way.
Another misconception I once embraced was that there is only one path to each destination. If you want to be an accountant you must take certain exact steps in an exact amount of time or you will never succeed. Granted there are specific hurdles that one must jump over to become an accountant but those hurdles can appear on a number of different pathways and along the way you may discover that the skills and tasks you enjoy so much about accounting can be used for this other profession down this other path that is far more interesting and exciting to you! Good thing you ventured that way or you never would have found it!
Setting some goals and coming up with a plan of how you will achieve those goals simply allows you to focus and understand the progress you are making. Revisiting the plan lets you see what you have achieved, how you have changed and helps you refocus. The plan is a tool to move you along, not a trap to lock you into a direction.
Now that I have made a case for making a plan and embarking on the path you choose, I would like to give you the tools to do so. Please check back to this site monthly as I outline strategies to help you along the path to achieving your vision, whatever that may be.
Also, please contact me if you are interested in one-on-one consultations. I would love our paths to meet!
Yours truly,
Kathleen
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